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This is a question of getting a grip on some aspect of life, or of sorting out a perspective for direction. It needs to be ascertained whether or not there is a beginning or an ending in process, in relative terms. As life and the universe are cyclical, there is really no such thing, but in the immediate situation its necessary to know whether you want to close the situation totally or open it up to fresh possibility. In terms of where you go now it is not as important to look for the perfect result as to watch where you are treading as you make preparation for travel. There is no shame in asking for help, and no harm in admitting your lack of knowledge. Do you have enough information from relevant parties and places on this situation? Perhaps not!
Examine the principles involved. They are not too healthy by the look of things. This does not mean that you are entirely responsible. It means that you must look deeper than perhaps you were previously prepared to do before you can know absolutely what you're dealing with. The truth is not exactly missing, its more that its not been called for or considered important in certain aspects of this matter. If you are negotiating with dubious or unsavoury people, either rule them out of the equation or expect to have to put right their errors at your own expense or inconvenience: to turn a blind eye is far more hazardous in the long term. So look this dilemma squarely in the face and deal with it sooner rather than later, or pull out of the frame altogether.
Emerging from this, you will have a fresh start. Perhaps that is what it will all have been about; the ability to turn over a new leaf, or begin anew. Remembering that you take yourself with you wherever you go or whatever you do, its best then to have realistic expectations of outer situations and higher expectations of self. Nevertheless, there is a healing or renaissance phase and then a forward motion into new times.
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