Current Profile
Your ability to be positive and spontaneous within relations has been a boon to anyone you were involved with. The understanding and genuine compassion for the feelings of the other person made you able to put your own concerns or lacks to the background. But you may have been a little bit too pliable at times, so that a guilt may have arisen on the part of lovers who may feel they are not able to repay or reflect this kind of liberal attitude in like terms. Sometimes people need to be told where the perimeters begin and end. Like children, they need to know that someone cares enough to say no. Is it also possible that you are a bit too reluctant to risk your own freedom enough to make firmer foundations. Ask yourself the question and be honest, it is not a cardinal sin - merely a fact of life evaluation. Perhaps there are diverse responsibilities or interests which absorb your energies or time and these need to be taken into consideration by anyone you are involved with. You may be energetic but you are not superhuman so don't set your stall out as if you are, or it will lead to disillusionment or to possible exhaustion.

Potential Change
It may be necessary to break a cycle which keeps repeating. Or to change a theme which runs through many of your involvements. Perhaps at a certain stage of intimacy you back off, or you sense a problem, or you feel that you can go no further. Something of this kind is either extant or is forming currently and liable to become a pattern. It may be a factor you have to work hard to discover, because there is a lot of pride or detachment within your current approach to love which may forbid you feeling too vulnerable or getting too involved in the dilemma. To walk away from a love affair while you are in a powerful position is relatively easy compared to walking away when you are not feeling so strong - that is a more daunting prospect and one which allows the emotional symptoms to pinpoint the real causes and motives of disguised fears. For then you will be face to face with some of your worse demons. You are now in a position of maximum choice - that is to say you have optimum control over your own movements and decisions. To know how to use this well is to avoid perpetuating the probable cycle referred to, and to avoid spending the rest of your personal life going around in a constricting band of experience-through-to stifled development. No matter how successful you are now, you must still see that what you are looking for is some greater handle on the maintenance side of relating, in order to stop things from dissolving or collapsing next time. You are dignified and self-contained, but don't let that become smugness or callousness in the following weeks. It might surprise you to know that some potential lovers are in awe of you. Perhaps that is what you want. But you should realize how to relent on the veneer when it comes to the one (or ones) who you actually want to admit to the inner sanctum, or perhaps the bedroom! To be a little aloof is alluring. To be totally out of anyone's reach is self defeating.